Sri Lanka has two new years, one in January (the western one) and one in April (ours). Here's why our New Year is better.
In western countries, you might get a day off for New Year; just enough time to sleep off a hangover and get back to work.
In Sri Lanka, the country is basically useless for an entire month. There are only two official days off, but most people take a week, and some people never come back at all. That's a real holiday.
For Western New Year you need to pay like Rs. 10,000 to get into an ordinary hotel bar and eat kiribath standing up in the morning.
For Avurudu, you give people betel leaves and they give you money. They just give you money. At some point you need to grow up and start giving younger people money, but if you just avoid children (strategic napping) you can still come out ahead.
The main festivity associated with New Year's Eve is getting drunk or otherwise intoxicated and watching a ball drop. For a lot of people that's not their thing and they just end up watching a movie and going to sleep.
Avurudu is much more family-friendly. Everyone likes to eat kiribath, play games, and wear new clothes. The usual intoxication involved is eating too much and passing out in the afternoon heat. Not that the uncles don't drink in the weeks before and after, but the holiday itself is for families.
For western New Year, you get to watch a ball sliding down a sort of greased pole, on TV. That's the main event.
In Sri Lanka, you can climb a greased pole yourself, pillow-fight, smash pots with sticks, or even enter the village foot-race if you can brave the heat. Alternately, you can just watch all the games in the shade and drink a Nelli crush, as I prefer to do.
Many Sri Lankan companies expect staff to come to work early on New Year's Day for some fiendish, bleary-eyed ritual of eating cold kiribath together. It's actually a punishment.
After Avurudu, nobody expects you to be productive. It is perfectly acceptable to not answer the phone properly until May. This may not be a good thing for our national economy, but it is good for general quality of life.
On New Year's you don't often share anything, except your personal space on a dancefloor.
On Avurudu, Sri Lankans share food with all of their neighbours, regardless of caste or creed. People gift plates of food and sweets to their neighbours, and those neighbours never return the plate empty.
Some people re-gift what they get to the next neighbour, but the spirit is there. It's all about giving.
Happy Avurudu everyone. Hope you have a peaceful, chilled and refreshing time in the new year. Even if you haven't harvested anything, you still deserve a break.
A cute little outdoor cafe in Kohuwala serving up some fantastic Thai cuisine.
A new catering service offering flavourful, homemade rice & curry.
The Kings is the lobby bar of The Kingsbury hotel.
Maha Gedara is a popular buth kadey in Mount Lavinia.